On ancient nautical maps, beyond the edge of the known world, mapmakers
would write “thar be dragons.” It seems to be human nature to first project
fear into uncharted realms before considering expanding the map.
Even when some individuals begin to push the boundaries, the collective
culture often pushes back. When Copernicus and Galileo dared suggest that the
world was round, they were ridiculed and severely punished by the powers that
be.
We each hold our own map of reality – our certainties about how things
work. This map is necessary. It allows us to move through our days without
having to relearn every single thing. It’s also exponentially smaller than the
whole of reality – and often quite wrong. While Columbus believed that the
world was round and set out to prove it, he still thought he’d found the East
Indies, not a new continent, because that’s what his map told him he would
find. We filter everything through our own very limited map and tend to
disregard anything that doesn’t match up.
The ego-self is the keeper of the current map of reality. And let’s not
bash the ego as something we need to get rid of. The ego-self is indispensible;
it is what allows us to get things done and to maintain order in our lives.
Doing those things is easier with a fixed map, and so the ego has a vested
interest in not letting the map change. When
your map and my map disagree, the ego-self declares your map “wrong” and my map
“right.” It is the ego-self who ridicules and punishes when the status quo is
challenged. It is the ego-self who sees dragons in the dark unknown.
The essential-self is the bridge to larger possibilities. It is the
part of you that remains connected to deeper realities and truths that lie
beyond individual perception. When your map and my map disagree, the
essential-self looks for new possibilities and deeper connections. It creates
synergy where there were differences and pushes for growth and transformation. The
essential-self is not only willing to expand the map, but even to completely
redesign it – to recognize when a 2-dimensional flat map will no longer do
because a 3-dimensional globe comes
closer to depicting what’s true.
The constant tension between the essential-self and the ego-self is
what drives the course of our personal and collective evolution. The
essential-self, recognizing the map is too small, pushes forward. The ego-self,
fearing dragons, pushes back. As more and more new territory is revealed, a new
map emerges and the ego-self is now able to comfortably navigate a much wider
territory.
We seem to be living in a time when our collective sense of “how things
are” has become painfully dysfunctional. We are recognizing, I think, that the
map is too small. Our essential-selves are pushing for a quantum leap – a
change on the scale of flat map to spherical globe. Our ego-selves can’t quite
wrap their heads around that, so they do what they do: hold tight to the status
quo, polarize right and wrong, ridicule and punish the pioneers of new thinking,
and project dragons into every dark corner.
It is only temporary ignorance and fear. The new map is emerging. I
can’t quite see it yet, but my essential-self can. Beyond the dragons, thar be
light!